Turning Jan. 1 into a Jewish-themed celebration
By Rabbi Brad Hirschfield for MyJewishLearningFor some Jews, the idea of celebrating New Year's on December 31 makes them feel uncomfortable.
They
see the holiday as part of secular tradition and therefore not
"Jewish." Some choose not to participate because they see it as a
betrayal of Jewish tradition.Why is commemorating an American custom viewed so suspiciously? Are we afraid that it will somehow make Jewish traditions seem less compelling, or are we so obsessed with our own uniqueness that we fail to see our connection to the wider world?
If our purpose is just to be different, then it's not worth it.
How to Celebrate
The question is not whether we should or shouldn't celebrate. But how should we do it? Is there a way to mark the holiday Jewishly? There are Jewish insights that we can bring to the occasion that would make it more meaningful.
New Year's marks a time when people everywhere celebrate the possibility of building a better tomorrow. It symbolizes the human desire to demarcate the past from the future, the old from the new. But what if we really understood that our words-our resolutions and commitments-could create a new beginning? What if we really believed that our vows had the power to help us get past the past?
There is a deep human desire to be able to start again, not to be imprisoned by the past. We need to feel hope for new possibilities and see that our future is not governed entirely by our history. It's no surprise that the images of the Grim Reaper and Father Time look alike and that the symbol for the New Year is a baby. We cut down some of the old and make space for something new.
Jewish Ideals
These are very much "Jewish" ideas as well. Jewish tradition celebrates the ability to start over throughout the year. In Jewish life every day, every week, and at many other times, we are given the chance to begin again. To integrate another celebration is very much in keeping with our tradition.
In daily morning prayers, Jews thank God for renewing the world. Every Shabbat we recall the first moment of creation, and by doing so, give ourselves the chance to start over. At Rosh Hashanah, Jews everywhere celebrate the birthday of the world, and even in the Mishna, the code of law, we recognize multiple Rosh Hashanahs (New Year's), so to commemorate an additional one is not foreign to Jewish practice.
Tips
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This
is not a story about God’s fifth commandment to honor one’s parents,
although there is a lesson to be learned from that here. This is a story
about forging a 614th commandment – Be Proud of Your Jewish Identity –
and it goes back to the time I graduated ninth grade at the Hebrew
Academy of Greater Hartford. I was a three-times-a-day praying,
kosher-eating, Shabbat-observant, modestly clothed young woman who aimed
to fulfill all of God’s 613 commandments. I wanted nothing more than to
go to Bais Yaakov High School in Borough Park. This time, my father put
his foot down. Under no circumstances would his daughter be associated
with Hasidim.
Now,
would that be non-believers in Christ? Nah. What does he have to do
with anything? TV is talking about non-believers in Santa (or his
designated representative, The Christmas Spirit). TV kids (and adults)
who believe in Santa get all their wishes answered. Like that episode of
“Silver Spoons” where Ricky Shroder’s friend was homeless and living in
a cave with his family and then woke up Christmas morning to find a
bright, shining tree all decked out with presents. (Finding a place to
plug a string of lights inside a cave seems like the true Christmas
miracle to me, but what do I know?) Or, for the youngsters among you,
remember that episode of “Glee” where Brittany believed in Santa Claus
and wished for Artie to walk again and Christmas morning brought him
robotic legs (which, fun fact, are made in Israel)?
Some
folks are taking the rare confluence this year of Thanksgiving and
Hanukkah to heart, renaming it Thanksgivukkah, redesigning menus and
refashioning ritual objects for the occasion.
From
menurkeys to sweet potato latke recipes, there are many creative ways
to celebrate this year’s unique overlap of Hanukkah and Thanksgiving. In
an effort to move beyond the kitsch, I would like to offer some
additional ideas for blending the Hanukkah tradition of giving with the
Thanksgiving ideal of gratitude. Here are eight suggestions (sorry, I
couldn’t resist) of how to use Thanksgivukkah as a launch pad for
learning, giving, and values-based family activities.
Three
of the films in the running for the Academy Award for Best Foreign
Language Film this year have ties to Israel. The Academy of Motion
Picture Arts and Sciences on Tuesday announced the full list of nations
that had submitted a movie for consideration in the category.
Seventy-six applicants, including 73 countries, plus Hong Kong, Taiwan
and the Palestinian Territories, are angling for the honor. A shortlist
of five official nominees will be announced in January.
What
do Chinese waitresses, vaginoplasty and hunting rifles have in common?
They all figure into plot points in "Jewtopia," a romantic comedy in
which a Jew helps his gentile friend pretend to be a member of the tribe
so he can land the local rabbi's hot daughter.
A
few months ago, I had the opportunity to ask a nineteen-year-old Satmar
girl, equally conversant in English and Yiddish, how she decides which
language to use at any given moment.
The
holiday of Sukkot is followed by an independent holiday called Shemini
Atzeret. In Israel, this is a one-day holiday; in the Diaspora it is a
two-day holiday, and the second day is known as Simchat Torah. This
holiday is characterized by utterly unbridled joy, which surpasses even
the joy of Sukkot. The joy reaches its climax on Simchat Torah, when we
celebrate the conclusion—and restart—of the annual Torah-reading cycle.
The
holiday of Sukkot is named after the booths or huts in which Jews are
supposed to live during this week-long festival. The huts are supposed
to remind us of the flimsy houses our ancestors lived in as they
traveled through the desert heading towards Israel.
The
ten days from Rosh HaShanah to Yom Kippur are known as the Aseret Yemei
Teshuva, the ten days of repentance. The Gemara, Rosh HaShanah 18a,
states that the verse (Yeshayahu 55:6) that states to call out to G-d
when he is close refers to the Aseret Yemei Teshuva. There are a number
of practices that are observed during these days. In this issue, we
will present a discussion about these practices and the common theme
that is apparent in all of these practices.
WHAT
IS ROSH HASHANAH?
We are all basically familiar with the custom that
starting on the first of Elul, the shofar is blown in all the synagogues after
the morning service. We know that our customs have been around for many years
and have deep reasons, but this one custom is perhaps more interesting than
most.
Rosh HaShanah (literally, "Head of the Year") is the
Jewish New Year, which marks the beginning of a 10-day period of prayer,
self-examination and repentance. This period, known as the Yamim Noraim (Days of
Awe or High Holy Days), is widely observed by Jews throughout the world, many
with prayer and reflection in a synagogue. There also are several holiday
rituals observed at home.
Israeli archaeologists last week discovered a fragment
of a ceramic jar they say dates back to the time of Kings David and Solomon and
bears the earliest sample of written text ever found in Jerusalem. 
The
day before Tisha B’Av three years ago, I ate the egg and ashes prescribed as the
meal before the fast begins, taking my last bite of the sliced white bread. On
the eve of the darkest date in Jewish history, as I sat on a milk crate and
gazed into a field and its tree-lined background, I began to cry.
The traveler's sobbing was so intense that it awoke
Berel the innkeeper. His wife was very nervous. "Why is our guest crying so
bitterly in the middle of the night?" she asked. "Something must have happened!"

The three-week period in summer that begins with the
fast of the 17th of Tammuz and climaxes with Tisha b'Av is known simply as "The
Three Weeks." It is a time of grieving for the destruction of both the First and
Second Temples in Jerusalem. This year the Three Weeks begins on June 25th and
culminates on July 19th.
The
purpose of such fasts in the Jewish calendar is, according to Rabbi Eliyahu
Kitov's Book of Our Heritage, "to awaken hearts towards repentance through
recalling our forefathers' misdeeds; misdeeds which led to calamities..."
Millions tuned in to watch the 11 finalists duke it
out for the 86th annual Scripps Spelling Bee title. The winner, two-time
third-place finisher Arvind Mahankali, walked away with $30,000–not an
insignificant amount of lunch money to get beaten up for–after correctly
spelling the word knaidel, from the Yiddish
for a dumpling. 
Robert J. Foley of Wilmington, N.C., sends me a copy
of an open letter written by author and rabbi Rami Shapiro to Pope Francis. In
it, Rabbi Shapiro hopes that “ruach ha-kodesh, the Holy Spirit, has called a new
pope from the new world to lead the Catholic Church,” and Mr. Foley writes:
We were in downtown Chicago on Feb. 17 when my wife
Galit got the first call. Our niece Maya, 24, had been in a bad car accident
near our house, some 28 miles outside the city. Her parents were away, so we
needed to come to the hospital. We were told that in the person driving the car
was also injured, but that person was unconscious and the paramedics and police
officers on the scene hadn’t been able to ascertain her identity. 